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It's a trend among the youngsters these days to showoff their friends that how smart they are, like riding without helmet. They don't understand that they are going to meet the hell without helmet. Parents feel helpless and fullfill their demands because they have no choice. They hardly spend quality time with them and try to compensate with these demands. 
                                  Boozing out with friends and partying is a common instinct in the 21st century youngsters. They do not understand the pit and fall simply gets drowned into it. They inculcate bad habits.

Virtual world is the part and parcel of the life of every child in the present scenario. The social behaviour changes with the excessive use of mobile phone and internet games. This leads to disease called internet disorder, and the symptoms are - Agression, irritation, unsocial, isolation and distraction.
So here are some wonderful tips for smart parenting-

  • Spend quality time with your child.
  • Be a friend, and not a nagging parent.
  • Put yourself into their shoes and feel and act like them whenever required.
  • Gain their trust and trust on them, afterall they are humans.
  • Do not think that they are your property and asset, they are individuals.
  • Do not humiliate them in front of others and respect their views.
  • Do not interfere too much and have patience until and unless they share their problems with you.
  • Do not burden them with your dreams and aspirations, let them chase their dream.
  • When Children don't get love at home so they seek love outside. Handle them with great love and care.
  • Enjoy the family bonding. Go for fishing, outing, a long drive, watching movie etc. in the weekend.
 Your child will be yours forever.

Comments

  1. Yes I want my parents to be exactly how you described.

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  2. Very well written. .Good suggestions!!!

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  3. A good drive towards the awareness of the modern parents. Would love to see the continuity on the topic.

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  4. Children in today's scenerio need a friend to share with. Parents need to understand them and respect thier thoughtful choices in life. .Better command than demand

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  5. Good tips and suggestions👌👌

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  6. children have started hiding the things from parents, bcoz when they share any incident with the parents they start reacting. so to avoid it, parents must build a good repo with their children. Excellent tips ma'am. I will definitely try to follow these.

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  7. Parents should really thing in the same manner. We expect that our parents be as our friend

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  8. I could really relate with this piece of writing because my mother does exactly what's suggested here.. N as a result of that, she's my best friend first n then my mom... Love you mumma! ❤

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  9. Mam whatever you have written here that is all true for everyone .
    Well done mam and keep it up. ❤

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  10. Definitely we need to respect our children because we expect the same from them. Giving them space and freedom is the best way to get the best out of them.

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  12. I am very grateful that you are my teacher. Nicely explained.👍

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  13. Nicely explained
    Very much true about 21st century children and some good ways to deal with the problem
    Proud to have you as a teacher

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